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Parish Education Program

 

PEP Program Overview

PEP is a unique religious education program that has been in place in St. Mary’s for over 20 years. What makes it unique is its focus on Adult Education. The premise behind PEP is that parents are the primary religious educators of their children. If this is true, then it is the parent we should be educating and the education of the children will follow as the family lives the faith. In many or even most religious education programs, children are dropped off with the assumption that the parish has the responsibility of teaching the faith. While it is true the parish has a responsibility to teach the faith, it does not necessarily have a responsibility to teach the faith to children. When that is the focus, the child whose family practices the faith gives that child a context for what is being taught and much of the program will be meaningful. But if the child is from a family that does not practice the faith, the lessons are being taught with no context and are as meaningless as a language being taught without speaking.

By focusing on the Adult Education component of the process, PEP is, in effect, making the statement that the parish is confident you are teaching your faith to your children and we will help you have the information and tools you need to do it well. In this context, even parents who are not practicing are being recognized. We are aware that they are teaching the children that their faith is not important. What we offer to them is information and experiences that can help them discern whether that is really the message they want to teach in their home.

ATTENDANCE

Because this is the focus, parents are expected to attend classes at the same time the children attend. Since the primary audience is older, and the fruit of the meetings will be evident daily once it is in the home, it is not necessary to have classes as often. PEP meets once a month for 8 months of the year. At least one parent is required to enroll in an adult program and attend every time the child or children are present. Partly because the program is well entrenched, and partly because parents recognize their role, attendance is excellent, with just about 100% of parents enrolling and more than 2/3 always in attendance.

Attendance is still a critical concern because if there are only 8 meetings, any absence is significant. For this reason stronger focus should be placed on the adult component and follow up will be made every month to missing parents. Follow up, sending the parent material with an email that reinforced the month’s theme so it can be discussed at home, has resulted in excellent attendance. All attendees must be registered with the Parishes of St Mary’s or St James.

PEP STRUCTURE

The way PEP is structured is as follows:

There is a fee of $45.00 for each family and a discounted price, $20.00, for any parish member that would like to take an adult course that does not have any additional family members.

Adults are offered choices among several courses. A course called Basic PEP is always offered and is required for the first two years. This course familiarizes the parents with the staff and allows them to ask questions about dimensions of the faith that have bothered or interested them.

In order to free the parents, there are pre-school programs for Nursery (infants and 1 year olds) Toddlers (2 year olds), Tots (3 year olds) and Pre-school (4 year olds.) There are classes for Kindergarten and Grade 1. Grade 2 is First Reconciliation/Communion preparation, and these students and parents meet at additional times. To receive First Communion children should start preparing by starting @ grade one, not waiting until the First Communion year itself. From Grade 3 to Grade 8 the children select from a variety of Clubs. The Clubs this year are listed on your registration form.

Confirmation I + II (Confirmtion Schedule TBA) have classes at PEP and additional classes/service projects in preparation for the sacrament.

For more information, please contact the Director of Religious Education, Sally Lambert
via e-mail at stmj.dre@aol.com or call Sally at 401-524-9608.

St. Mary's Parish
P.O. Box 475
437 Carolina Back Road
Carolina, RI 02812
ATTN: Sally Lambert

Link to Special Meetings for First Communion and Special Meetings for Confirmation II

PEP Program Schedule 2011-2012
Sundays at Chariho Middle School*
Mass followed by Adult and Child Classes - Confirmation Classes TBA
September 18
October 16
October 22 - Middle School Retreat at St. Bernard's in N. Kingstown, RI**
November 19 - Confirmation I + II Retreat at St. Francis in Wakefield, RI***
November 20
December 18
January 22
February 12
March 18
April 29
May 6 - First Communion Celebration at St. Mary's Church
May 20 - First Communion Celebration at St. James Church

* Special masses that parents should make a point of attending with their children: Thanksgiving AM mass, Christmas Vigil mass, Easter Vigil mass, and also The Stations of the Cross. These masses are specially designed for children and this year I would like to recruit children to form a choir for these specific dates. The Christmas Play will also need some children as participants. No experience needed. It is really fun for the kids!

** A Middle School retreat will be held on Saturday, October 22 from 9:30am to 11:15am at St. Bernard's in North Kingstown. The cost is $5.00 per child and is suggested for all our Middle School students. Click here for the Middle School Retreat Flyer.

*** Confirmation I and II retreat will be held November 19th at St. Francis in Wakefield, RI. It will run from 9:00am to 4:30pm. There will be an outline passed out to parents and students at the September PEP. The cost is $22.00 and students should bring their lunch. Retreat is a mandatory part of the Confirmation process. Click here for Confirmation I+II Retreat Form.

 

For more information, please contact the Director of Religious Education, Sally Lambert
via e-mail at stmj.dre@aol.com or call Sally at 401-524-9608.

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